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I walked into the grocery
store not particularly interested in buying groceries. I wasn't
hungry. The pain of losing my
husband of 37 years was still too raw. And this grocery store held so many
sweet memories. Rudy often
came with me and almost every time he'd pretend to go off and look for
something special. I knew what he was up to. I'd always spot him walking
down the aisle with the three yellow roses in his hands. Rudy knew I loved yellow roses.
With a heart filled with grief,
I only wanted to buy my few items and leave, but even grocery
shopping was different since Rudy had passed on.
Shopping for one took
time, a little more thought than it had for two. Standing by the meat, I
searched for the perfect small steak and remembered how Rudy had loved his
steak. Suddenly a woman came
beside me. She was blond, slim and lovely in a soft green pantsuit. I watched as she picked up a large
pack of T-bones, dropped them in her basket, hesitated, and then put them
back. She turned to go and once again reached for the pack of steaks. She saw me watching her and she
smiled. "My husband loves T-bones, but honestly, at these prices, I don't
know."
I swallowed the emotion
down my throat and met her pale blue eyes. "My husband passed away eight
days ago," I told her. Glancing at the package in her hands, I fought to
control the tremble in my voice. "Buy him the steaks. And cherish every
moment you have together."
She shook her head and I saw the emotion in her eyes as she placed
the package in her basket and wheeled away. I turned and pushed my cart across
the length of the store to the dairy products. There I stood, trying to
decide which size milk I should buy. A quart, I finally decided and moved
on to the ice cream section near the front of the store. If nothing else,
I could always fix myself an ice cream cone.
I placed the ice cream in
my cart and looked down the aisle toward the front. I saw first the green
suit, then recognized the pretty lady coming towards me. In her arms she
carried a package. On her face was the brightest smile I had ever seen. I
would swear a soft halo encircled her blond hair as she kept walking
toward me, her eyes holding mine. As she came closer, I saw what she held
and tears began misting in my yes.
"These are for you," she
said and placed three beautiful long stemmed yellow roses in my arms.
"When you go through the line, they will know these are paid for." She
leaned over and placed a gentle kiss on my cheek, then smiled again. I wanted to tell her what she'd
done, what the roses meant, but still unable to speak, I watched as she
walked away as tears clouded my vision. I looked down at the beautiful
roses nestled in the green tissue wrapping and found it almost unreal. How
did she know? Suddenly the
answer seemed so clear. I wasn't alone. "Oh, Rudy, you haven't forgotten
me, have you?" I whispered, with tears in my eyes. He was still with me,
and she was his angel. Everyday be thankful for what you have and who you
are.
Please read all of this,
it is really nice! This is a simple request. If you appreciate life, send
this to your friends, including the person that sent it to you! Even
though I clutch my blanket and growl when the alarm rings, thank you,
Lord, that I can hear. There are many who are deaf. Even though I keep my eyes closed
against the morning light as long as possible, thank you, Lord, that I can
see. Many are blind.
Even though I huddle in my
bed and put off rising, thank you, Lord, that I have the strength to rise.
There are many who are bedridden.
Even though the first hour of my day is hectic, when socks are
lost, toast is burned and tempers are short, my children are so loud,
thank you, Lord, for my family. There are many who are lonely. Even though our breakfast table
never looks like the pictures in magazines and the menu is at times
unbalanced, thank you, Lord, for the food we have. There are many who are
hungry.
Even though the routine of
my job often is monotonous, thank you, Lord, for the opportunity to work.
There are many who have no job.
Even though I grumble and bemoan my fate from day to day and wish
my circumstances were not so modest, thank you, Lord, for life! Pass this on to the friends you
know, it might help a bit to make this world a better place to live,
right?
PASS IT
ON....
A friend is
someone we turn to when our spirits need a lift.
A friend is
someone to treasure. For friendship is a gift.
A friend is
someone who fills our lives with Beauty, Joy and Grace
and makes the
world we live in a better and happier place.
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