| “WHO CARES? – I DO”
This year, amazingly, I’ve reached 60 yrs. of age. From my own experiences, in life; loneliness is perhaps the worst demon to manage. Whatever has been a struggle, like my long difficult battle with mental health, family situations, general health and just day to day issues, in managing all of these, loneliness was by far the hardest. They made me feel ashamed, even stigmatised, because I was struggling. It felt people either hadn’t noticed this because I looked ok on the outside. They simply hadn’t time or didn’t want to be bothered and understand.
Now I feel I need to stop awhile and think. How does a family member feel? Or even a friend? And simply that person in the street I pass by? “How are you?” even a smile or good morning to a person alone or struggling, in some way often unnoticeable. A warm and loving hug or kiss on the cheek for a loved one or friend. It all goes a long way. Further than I may even realise.
I’ve made my mind up to take notice of those around me, and to try and make a difference to the quality of other people’s lives. If someone is homeless, in need of a warm cuppa, even if someone wants to chat awhile, it will be my privilege to offer them hospitality compassion or reassurance and show I really do care.
I suppose I’m asking if you too could take a moment to look at others and maybe let them know you care.
Mrs Susan Mason
Emailed to
cannock.chron@expressandstar.co.uk
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